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Nellie’s Video Diary: Sexuality

“I think it’s because we as, especially young women,  look at all these media portrayals of what sexy is, and we can’t find where we fit in that. I’m, I look at these commercials and I’m like “I don’t have big boobs and I don’t prance around on the beach in my underwear…” so obviously I’m not sexy. Like I’m awkward and I’m weird and I got made fun of for these things when I was younger, so I like just don’t fit the standard definition of sexy, and I’ve finally become okay with that.”